Readiness for Toilet Training video transcript

In this video I will talk about the signs that can tell us when children are ready to being toilet training.

 

There are multiple factors to consider when thinking about autism and toileting as we have discussed in earlier videos.

 

A study in 1992 found that, on average, autistic children require around a year and half of toilet training to stay dry during the day and sometimes more than 2 years to achieve full bowel control.

 

This is why we want you to consider the phrase it’s a marathon and not a sprint. As with a marathon, it will take more preparation, persistence and perseverance. You might find you have a few false starts or failed attempts before you make it.

 

This is why it is going to be really important to celebrate the small steps, goals and achievements you have along this journey.

 

As mentioned, toilet training can take some time and needs perseverance. Before you start, think about whether you are emotionally ready for the journey and whether it is a time where you can be consistent with strategies you are putting in place. For example, if you know you have a holiday coming up or you are moving property; the transition and new environment could hinder the toileting process. Consider not only your readiness but other members of your household who are supporting you.

 

Your readiness has to coincide with your child’s. Consider whether they are recognising when they need the toilet or if their nappy is dirty. They need to have voluntary control of their bladder and bowel, and this usually develops first in the bladder and later in the bowel. For example, if you notice that your child is tending not to wet nappies during the day, and able to hold their wee for at least an hour, it would suggest some voluntary control. Other signs of readiness could be that your child is now starting to find a private space to go to when doing a poo in their nappy, for example behind a sofa or in a quiet corner. Another sign could be showing awareness that they have done a poo or a wee, by showing you, telling you, putting their hands down their nappy, and showing general discomfort that they have been.

 

You will also need to make sure they are able to sit on the toilet or potty appropriately and that they are not constipated.

 

When you and your child are ready to start toilet training, it’s important to consider consistency. This will be an essential part of toilet training. It will be beneficial to liaise with the nursery or school so that they start at the same time and are using any of the same methods as you.

 

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