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Play Routines

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Play Routines can help with the development of your child’s shared attention, and their play and interaction skills. They are games that involve an object or a toy.
 
In these games children are learning to shift their attention between you and the toy or object used in the game.
 
Why use play routines?
 
  • They are informal and relaxed.
  • The play routines are based around what your child likes so it makes it easier for your child to engage in them.
  • They rely on repetition and routine. This helps build your child’s anticipation of what will happen next. It also provides clear opportunities for your child to try and communicate.

How to do it:
 
  • Focus on your child’s interests and build your play routine around it.
  • Have a clear start and finish with predictable steps in the routine.
  • Show your child how to do the play sequence and take turns if they understand the routine.

Ideas for making a fun play routine:
 
What's in the bag?

What's in the bag?

  • Get a bag and place objects or toys in the bag.
  • Depending on your child’s interests you might choose household objects, sensory toys (such as wind up toys, toys that light up), toy animals, toy vehicles, shapes, inset puzzle pieces, toy blocks, playdough and cutters, tea party toys, doll play toys, small world toys – whatever you think will engage your child.
  • Sing the song, ‘what’s in the bag, what’s in the bag, Mohamed Mohamed, what’s in the bag?’ – (change the name for your child).
  • Take turns to pull one item out at a time.
  • Label the item.
  • Do an action with the item and say what you are doing e.g. ‘I’m cutting playdough’.
  • When it’s your turn you sing, “What’s in the bag what’s in the bag mummy, mummy or daddy, daddy what’s in the bag?”.
  • Help your child understand when the game is finished e.g. show them the empty bag and say “finished”
Ready, steady, go! games

Ready, steady, go! games

  • You say ‘ready, steady…’
  • When your child gives you the cue to ‘go’ you do the exciting action.
  • This ‘cue’ can be eye contact, gesture, vocalisations, or the word, ‘go’.
  • Ideas for the game:
    • letting go of a balloon full of air so that it flies off
    • blowing bubbles
    • knocking down a tower of blocks
    • pushing your child on a swing.

Remember

To put pauses into the game to give your child a chance to communicate that they want more, or they want a turn.
 
To watch some videos showing examples of the above types of games click here and here.
Last updated20 Jan 2025
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